No one likes to believe they are being cheated on. When thoughts of, “You are being deceived,” first ran through my mind, I felt strange, as if it was me who was doing the cheating.
The days turned into weeks, the weeks into months, then it happened, I confronted her. My gut feeling was starting to become stronger by each passing day.
Before I continue, my name is J.B. I have experienced infidelity and want you to know, help is available. You have not done anything wrong, so do not allow the cheater in your family to make you feel bad for asking a few simple questions.
Do not allow your cheating husband or wife make you feel as if you are crazy, a control freak or insecure. It is they who have issues.
Now, back to what I was about to write.
She told me I was being insecure, a control freak. She became confrontational and made every attempt to belittle my questions. She told me that only an insecure loser would ask, “Why does your cell phone keep getting turned off?”
She was hiding something from me, of that I was sure.
I sat down at the kitchen table, fired up my laptop and began to research. It was not long before Google presented me with a link, www.edmontonprivateinvestigators.com.
A Private Investigator in Edmonton? I said to myself. The only time I had ever seen a private investigator was on the TV.
The fact that they actually existed was not something I had even considered before.
I clicked the link and visited the Edmonton Private Investigators website.
Within minutes of reading through the pages, it became clear that cheaters exhibit similar patterns. The key one being, they love to avoid talking about their infidelity and will do what it takes to shut down honest questions.
Seriously, if you are with someone, love them, respect them and have the desire to grow old together, why cheat? It’s quite clear that cheaters have psychological issues and are not honest people.
Cheaters, always have excuses. “He did not communicate with me, so I found someone who could.” “She spent more time with her friends, so I found someone to spend time with.”
Remember, the above are EXCUSES, a simple way to self-rationalize their devious behaviour.
Don’t allow your cheating wife/husband to push your honest questions aside. A relationship is not supposed to have secrets. If you feel yours does, visit www.edmontonprivateinvestigators.com.
Something else that really raised red flags was the amount of money being spent, and when I asked her about the financial situation, all hell broke loose.
I know now, that many cheaters love to spend money on their new “friends.” The majority of cheaters will try to hide this rampant spending and when asked, can become angry or outright aggressive.
In fact, she became so aggressive that I am missing a tooth.
If you are experiencing a mysterious cash shortage, understand that most of the time, your hard-earned money is being spent on a new friend, gambling or both.
Within a few weeks of my asking questions, the cell phone company called me and asked when I would be paying the $3000.00 cell phone bill. You see, I made the mistake of putting both phones in my name.
It turned out that she had lent out the phone to every Tom, Dick and Harry she could find.
Anyway, to make a long story short, she finally admitted to cheating on me and moved out.
I felt as if a weight had been lifted from my shoulders. Oh sure, it took me a while to get my finances and life in order. The exciting part, she was now out of my life and I could move on.
The feeling of being freed from my relationship-slavery was indeed an exhilarating feeling. Most people don’t end up as I did.
That’s because most cheaters are scum and refuse to be honest. That’s when you need to pick up the phone and call www.edmontonprivateinvestigators.com.
Please remember: If you have a gut feeling about your wife/husband, you are most likely correct. Don’t be ashamed and do not hesitate to contact www.edmontonprivateinvestigators.com.
The investigation specialists at www.edmontonprivateinvestigators.com really know their stuff and will help you to clear up your situation. Your life will be greatly improved, and you like me, will be able to move on, away from the stress and lies.
Remember, the majority of cheaters will NOT admit to their infidelity. I just happened to get lucky when my cheating ex-wife blurted out the truth. The majority of cases will require a professional who can covertly gather evidence for you.